Everyone says "J you must write a book". Here we go.
Author: Just J
Jay Patterson (Just J) is an adventurous woman who is so brave. She can be dangerous, addictive, inspiring, and exciting. Her ability to be the one to say yes to any new ideas is incredible. You will enjoy her stories facing her depression, dealing with adversity through humor. Understanding mistakes in life and rectifying them are traits that can be very helpful to others. Comedy information is just one part of her website. She also wants to be an advocate for mental health, alopecia, alcoholism, and addictions.
I like these prompts. They make me think of thoughts I don’t have normally. Actually I don’t think I am. My main superstition used to be “don’t go back in house when you are leaving on a trip. “. At my age I am always forgetting something so am always running back into the house before heading out. So no superstitions?
Even though I’m retired I work part time. My job is repetitive work, data entry. It’s a mail processing job so there are times I do work in other areas. The last thing I learned was scanning. This department scans all the incoming mail. It is also repetitive but with many running parts. My first night I made a huge mistake that I could have been written up for. When I was told that I said “it was my first night! No one told me about wiping glue off the rollers”. They finally agreed and I learned to wipe off the rollers!!
What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
I’m such a chatterbox. I don’t know what I hate being asked. Why am I so busy all the time? Because I have a lot of energy and I like to do many things. Paint, sew, write for my comedy sets, pets, volunteer for the homeless and their pets, work part time.. it’s hard for me to just BE. I’m actually trying to organize my life so I’m not so active.
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?
My first experience was sobering up in 1986 through AA. My life had totally unraveled. One problem that didn’t go away was my relationships with men. I continued to date active alcoholics. When I was 42 I spent a month in a facility for co-dependence. What an eye-opening experience. That was my 2nd life-changing experience.
Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.
In 1986 I divorced my 2nd husband and quit drinking. That husband and I were connected by Harley’s. I had a 1982 Super-glide. It was so beautiful. Pearl blue. Saddle bags. All set for traveling all over. I was involved in the biking community for 10 years. I needed to sell the bike and change my lifestyle. I sobbed as I watched go away.
If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?
When I graduated from high school my goal was to move to Puerto Rico and be a bilingual nurse. My friend was an exchange student from there. That thought makes me sad. I really really wanted to do that. I moved
Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on.
My husband and I used to winter in Bisbee ,AZ. We went to a 100 yr Methodist church. We asked if we could fix up their little bathroom. They said we prefer if you could paint the outside of the church. Mmmm.. I guess. Turned out to be a huge project! It was 3 stories high due to Bisbee’s landscape. It was hot
and the church faced west. We had to scrape off the old paint. Then we had to paint the wood with oil and then we had to paint with oil based expensive paint. It had several rows of wood scallops that were painted 3 different colors!! Took 3 of us 2 months. It was beautiful but would never take on a project like that again.